gaslighted? what to do

you might have a friend that seems really nice at first, but as soon as you try to improve, they become increasingly mean to you. let’s talk about this. first of all, NEVER blame yourself for the disrespectful or appalling way they’re treating you. they’re mean to you because of their own insecurity, and it’sContinue reading “gaslighted? what to do”

why don’t i trust serious people?

unlike the mind that are constructed by thoughts, your Conscious Awareness is constant and never seizes to exist. the sense of ‘I AM’ or ‘I EXIST’ is constant in everyone and everything (because that’s how God feels — and remember what i said in an earlier blog, God is our highest Self). the purest versionContinue reading “why don’t i trust serious people?”

why don’t people choose happiness now?

happiness is free. why then so many people don’t choose it? let’s talk about it! happiness is everywhere, at all times — it’s proven by the fact that there are happy people everywhere and you may come across them anytime. AND, as a bonus, happiness is free, then why so many people choose not toContinue reading “why don’t people choose happiness now?”

when things don’t go your way

things don’t always go your way. what’s important isn’t to force or wish for everything to go your way. what you need to do is to figure out solutions. i’ll share what i do when things don’t go my way. when things don’t go my way, after complaining about it (which is fun and everybodyContinue reading “when things don’t go your way”

why does life suck?

no, you must reword that stuff — your life sucks, not mine. i’m sorry but it’s true. your life sucks because you attract what you expect. well then you’ll be asking another question: ‘if the manifestation stuff works, then nobody’s life should suck, especially mine, isn’t that right?’ well, that’s only partially correct — cozContinue reading “why does life suck?”

you attract what you ___ (fill in the blanks)

so what DO you attract? i’ve heard so many versions of ‘you attract what you ___’ and they all made sense! lol.. but which one is the real answer in terms of law of attraction? i just figured that out! i have (and you prolly have too) heard about these versions: ‘you attract what youContinue reading “you attract what you ___ (fill in the blanks)”

suffering is a choice

we hear people say ‘happiness is a choice’ all the time. it’s true, little do we know, the opposite is also true. in today’s rant i’ll select 2 typical examples from my own life’s experiences to demonstrate what i mean by that. case study 1️⃣Crusty’s story: Crusty used to live with me at my placeContinue reading “suffering is a choice”

looking at my ex’ insta, i cried

even though we broke up in May, i still looked at their social media every now and then months after. every time i did that, the back of my head whispers: ‘don’t do that! we gotta break the thought and behavioral pattern and break free from them!’ i couldn’t do it at first, but sinceContinue reading “looking at my ex’ insta, i cried”

twin flame relationships = doom?

i completely stopped watching or reading about ‘twin flames’ because the authors of this broad topic only want your attention and views (and sometimes your money as well). they wish for you to force yourself to experience ‘twin flame’ troubles so that you keep coming back to them for more advice sessions. SO PLEASE BEContinue reading “twin flame relationships = doom?”

so many breakups this year

and a lot of us blame COVID for it, and label this year as ‘the worst year ever’. well, fear not! i am here to explain why have there been so many breakups this year and i will use my own experience to help you cope with it as well if you’re going through theContinue reading “so many breakups this year”