trust — you already know how

guys long time no see, my life has been too awesome to just sit down and write blogs, but here i am, woo! let’s go! one of the biggest challenges we face on a daily basis is ‘trust’. especially with the pandemic, we’re so disconnected from nature and other people, and there’s even less trustContinue reading “trust — you already know how”

speaking in tongues?

i might or might not have spoken or written about this topic in the past, but i want to give you an updated blog about it. i first got the ‘inspiration’ to talk about the phenomenon of ‘speaking in tongues’ from a friend. he told me a christian person he watches on youtube ‘can speakContinue reading “speaking in tongues?”

have i been too selfish?

i’ve been a super compassionate and caring person ever since i was a kid. as a result of that, i got hurt and got taken advantage of throughout my adulthood. at first i just put up with it. when i got really fed up with it and decided to protect my own integrity. this yearContinue reading “have i been too selfish?”

looking at my ex’ insta, i cried

even though we broke up in May, i still looked at their social media every now and then months after. every time i did that, the back of my head whispers: ‘don’t do that! we gotta break the thought and behavioral pattern and break free from them!’ i couldn’t do it at first, but sinceContinue reading “looking at my ex’ insta, i cried”

when parents split, don’t take sides

i know taking sides come naturally to us, been there, done that, really regretted it, so this time i really want you to do something counter-intuitive. before my parents had the divorce, they were both wonderful people. once i took sides of one, the other started to look more and more like a ‘demon’ (andContinue reading “when parents split, don’t take sides”

relationship = conscious choice?

yo vassup! i know this blog is gonna be a bit too spiritual. but i also know that y’all are ready for this! so LET’S GO! enlightened masters keep telling us that our relationship should be a conscious choice. for a long time i couldn’t figure out what they meant by that.. i thought ifContinue reading “relationship = conscious choice?”

so many breakups this year

and a lot of us blame COVID for it, and label this year as ‘the worst year ever’. well, fear not! i am here to explain why have there been so many breakups this year and i will use my own experience to help you cope with it as well if you’re going through theContinue reading “so many breakups this year”

ignore judgmental people

and most importantly, love yourself! hi guys, welcome to another one of my rants! let’s get straight into today’s topic! up until just last month, i’ve shared my place with Crusty for almost a decade. and to think in retrospect on what Mel Robbins said in one of her older videos i’ve watched — it’sContinue reading “ignore judgmental people”

how being understanding and open minded helped me

hey sup! let’s get straight into the topic lol. through today’s experience i’ve learned that, even though everyone’s personal goals and purpose in life may vary, the collective purpose for humanity here on earth is TO HEAL. yeah, your life is that powerful! and in order to heal, you become more understanding and open mindedContinue reading “how being understanding and open minded helped me”

update on quitting social media

Hey guys, vassup! Like I said in my last blog, I’m taking a break from social media because of the increasing hatred that’s been going on (and intensified recently as a result of the US election). Just a bit of update on that: it’s only been a few days and I feel great! You don’tContinue reading “update on quitting social media”