when things don’t go your way

things don’t always go your way. what’s important isn’t to force or wish for everything to go your way. what you need to do is to figure out solutions. i’ll share what i do when things don’t go my way. when things don’t go my way, after complaining about it (which is fun and everybodyContinue reading “when things don’t go your way”

bad news for mi twitter followers

after taking almost 2 months’ break from twitter, i started slowly merging back to the app. HOWEVER, i can safely say that I MISS NOTHING ABOUT TWITTER 😳 once i broke the twitter-addiction, i’m way healthier mentally, and i realized that I CAN LIVE WITHOUT IT FOREVER 😕 i would only miss 3 people onContinue reading “bad news for mi twitter followers”

suffering is a choice

we hear people say ‘happiness is a choice’ all the time. it’s true, little do we know, the opposite is also true. in today’s rant i’ll select 2 typical examples from my own life’s experiences to demonstrate what i mean by that. case study 1️⃣Crusty’s story: Crusty used to live with me at my placeContinue reading “suffering is a choice”

twin flame relationships = doom?

i completely stopped watching or reading about ‘twin flames’ because the authors of this broad topic only want your attention and views (and sometimes your money as well). they wish for you to force yourself to experience ‘twin flame’ troubles so that you keep coming back to them for more advice sessions. SO PLEASE BEContinue reading “twin flame relationships = doom?”

when parents split, don’t take sides

i know taking sides come naturally to us, been there, done that, really regretted it, so this time i really want you to do something counter-intuitive. before my parents had the divorce, they were both wonderful people. once i took sides of one, the other started to look more and more like a ‘demon’ (andContinue reading “when parents split, don’t take sides”

relationship = conscious choice?

yo vassup! i know this blog is gonna be a bit too spiritual. but i also know that y’all are ready for this! so LET’S GO! enlightened masters keep telling us that our relationship should be a conscious choice. for a long time i couldn’t figure out what they meant by that.. i thought ifContinue reading “relationship = conscious choice?”

so many breakups this year

and a lot of us blame COVID for it, and label this year as ‘the worst year ever’. well, fear not! i am here to explain why have there been so many breakups this year and i will use my own experience to help you cope with it as well if you’re going through theContinue reading “so many breakups this year”

your weakness is your strength

guys vassup! i’ma just get straight into today’s topic! have you ever complimented someone about something that they’re really good at, but instead of taking the compliment they blush and tell you that they’re not good at it at all? yeah, you’re that person too sometimes lol.. you’re so good at something but you keepContinue reading “your weakness is your strength”

ignore judgmental people

and most importantly, love yourself! hi guys, welcome to another one of my rants! let’s get straight into today’s topic! up until just last month, i’ve shared my place with Crusty for almost a decade. and to think in retrospect on what Mel Robbins said in one of her older videos i’ve watched — it’sContinue reading “ignore judgmental people”