twin flame relationships = doom?

i completely stopped watching or reading about ‘twin flames’ because the authors of this broad topic only want your attention and views (and sometimes your money as well). they wish for you to force yourself to experience ‘twin flame’ troubles so that you keep coming back to them for more advice sessions. SO PLEASE BEContinue reading “twin flame relationships = doom?”

when parents split, don’t take sides

i know taking sides come naturally to us, been there, done that, really regretted it, so this time i really want you to do something counter-intuitive. before my parents had the divorce, they were both wonderful people. once i took sides of one, the other started to look more and more like a ‘demon’ (andContinue reading “when parents split, don’t take sides”

relationship = conscious choice?

yo vassup! i know this blog is gonna be a bit too spiritual. but i also know that y’all are ready for this! so LET’S GO! enlightened masters keep telling us that our relationship should be a conscious choice. for a long time i couldn’t figure out what they meant by that.. i thought ifContinue reading “relationship = conscious choice?”

2020 is NOT the worst year of my life

i hear so many people say that this year is the worst year of their life.. UM HELLO, I HEARD YOU SAY IT ABOUT 2019, 2018, 2017 AND LITERALLY EVERY YEAR PRIOR TO THOSE AS WELL! seriously, just live your life lol.. if you’re still alive in 2020, chances are, you’re lucky and this isn’tContinue reading “2020 is NOT the worst year of my life”

the perks of growing up with grandparents

they’re very considerate of others’ needs. they taught me that you’re providing value to the world rather than taking from it. they take me to nature walks a lot and taught me that we are a part of nature and that we are nature, we are in perfect harmony with nature and that we should always look after the environment rather than hurting it.

so many breakups this year

and a lot of us blame COVID for it, and label this year as ‘the worst year ever’. well, fear not! i am here to explain why have there been so many breakups this year and i will use my own experience to help you cope with it as well if you’re going through theContinue reading “so many breakups this year”

your weakness is your strength

guys vassup! i’ma just get straight into today’s topic! have you ever complimented someone about something that they’re really good at, but instead of taking the compliment they blush and tell you that they’re not good at it at all? yeah, you’re that person too sometimes lol.. you’re so good at something but you keepContinue reading “your weakness is your strength”

don’t let god be the reason you miss god

i might have made the title too short and precise. what i meant by that is — don’t let your obsession of god (or your own concept or version of belief of god) be the reason that you miss out on what everyday life is teaching you about the true essence of god. if you’reContinue reading “don’t let god be the reason you miss god”

ignore judgmental people

and most importantly, love yourself! hi guys, welcome to another one of my rants! let’s get straight into today’s topic! up until just last month, i’ve shared my place with Crusty for almost a decade. and to think in retrospect on what Mel Robbins said in one of her older videos i’ve watched — it’sContinue reading “ignore judgmental people”

why do we feel hurt in a relationship

because we expect them to behave EXACTLY according to an exaggerated version of our own moral standard — a moral standard perfection that we can’t even conform to ourselves. we subconsciously expect that person to behave perfectly, while completely ignore the fact that everyone has been through different experiences in life, and moral/ethical standards differContinue reading “why do we feel hurt in a relationship”