have i been too selfish?

i’ve been a super compassionate and caring person ever since i was a kid. as a result of that, i got hurt and got taken advantage of throughout my adulthood. at first i just put up with it. when i got really fed up with it and decided to protect my own integrity. this yearContinue reading “have i been too selfish?”

when things don’t go your way

things don’t always go your way. what’s important isn’t to force or wish for everything to go your way. what you need to do is to figure out solutions. i’ll share what i do when things don’t go my way. when things don’t go my way, after complaining about it (which is fun and everybodyContinue reading “when things don’t go your way”

why does life suck?

no, you must reword that stuff — your life sucks, not mine. i’m sorry but it’s true. your life sucks because you attract what you expect. well then you’ll be asking another question: ‘if the manifestation stuff works, then nobody’s life should suck, especially mine, isn’t that right?’ well, that’s only partially correct — cozContinue reading “why does life suck?”

honor your hobbies

you might think ‘oh, it’s just a hobby’, WRONG! your hobby is your heart communicating directly to you about what your life’s purpose is. people think they should ignore their hobbies if they wanna achieve greatness in life. they might even think that their hobbies are in their way towards success.. they believe ‘the realisticContinue reading “honor your hobbies”

double negative = positive?

in maths, yes. in manifesting what you want in life? not really. comparing these two sentences: 1. i’m not gonna fail my maths exam 🙃2. i’m gonna pass my maths exam 😌even though they convey the same meaning, it’s not hard to tell sentence number two is a lot more positive. therefore, when y’all areContinue reading “double negative = positive?”

bad news for mi twitter followers

after taking almost 2 months’ break from twitter, i started slowly merging back to the app. HOWEVER, i can safely say that I MISS NOTHING ABOUT TWITTER 😳 once i broke the twitter-addiction, i’m way healthier mentally, and i realized that I CAN LIVE WITHOUT IT FOREVER 😕 i would only miss 3 people onContinue reading “bad news for mi twitter followers”

菲菲 i love u

菲菲,很抱歉这么久没时间跟你联系。。虽然很短暂,但是我依然很珍惜我们在一起的时光。我和你的回忆全都是快乐的。 你的坚强,你的正能量,你的责任心始终激励着我。从我遇见你的那天起我就知道,我的人生永远改变了。因此我非常感恩也非常荣幸此生能遇见你。 当时看到你的身体恢复得很好,我就放心了。每天都相信奇迹,相信痊愈,我就去忙自己的事情。现在才知道友情是多重要。我忘了,花总是需要灌溉,光顾着自己的事。现在才发现和亲人,朋友在一起,给大家带欢乐是多重要的事情。 我看开了很多事情,所以我以后也学着不跟别人计较了,能宽容就宽容。现在更加发现人生说长很长,其实也不长。更加发现珍惜每一天,珍惜身边人的重要性。一切都想开,每天都快乐,给身边人带来欢乐是我最大的幸福了。我不能逃避悲伤,我要将爱的种子撒向人间。 希望你能在更高的次元看见我写的这个。你在那边一定要幸福!你的正能量像阳光一样照亮我们!病痛已经影响不到你,而且还有这么多爱你的人祝福你,没有人责怪你,所以一定要放下包袱,开心每一天!如果你转世的话一定要告诉我,我们还是好朋友!💖

you attract what you ___ (fill in the blanks)

so what DO you attract? i’ve heard so many versions of ‘you attract what you ___’ and they all made sense! lol.. but which one is the real answer in terms of law of attraction? i just figured that out! i have (and you prolly have too) heard about these versions: ‘you attract what youContinue reading “you attract what you ___ (fill in the blanks)”

suffering is a choice

we hear people say ‘happiness is a choice’ all the time. it’s true, little do we know, the opposite is also true. in today’s rant i’ll select 2 typical examples from my own life’s experiences to demonstrate what i mean by that. case study 1️⃣Crusty’s story: Crusty used to live with me at my placeContinue reading “suffering is a choice”

looking at my ex’ insta, i cried

even though we broke up in May, i still looked at their social media every now and then months after. every time i did that, the back of my head whispers: ‘don’t do that! we gotta break the thought and behavioral pattern and break free from them!’ i couldn’t do it at first, but sinceContinue reading “looking at my ex’ insta, i cried”